How and Why Rarity from the Hollow Helps to Prevent
Child Abuse
I AM Book Reviewing: Please give some more information about your
idea behind Rarity from the Hollow –
how and why it helps to prevent child abuse?
Robert: I’ve worked in the field of child advocacy for over
forty years. A few months ago, I retired from my job as a children’s
psychotherapist from an intensive mental health program. Many of the kids in
the program had been abused, some sexually. Part of my job was to facilitate
group therapy sessions.
One day in 2006 during a group therapy session, I was sitting around a table
used for written therapeutic exercises, and a little girl with stringy, brown
hair sat a few feet away. Instead of just disclosing the horrors of her abuse
at the hands of the meanest daddy on Earth, she also spoke of her hopes and
dreams for the future: finding a loving family who would love and protect her.
This girl was inspiring. She got me thinking again about my own hopes and
dreams of writing fiction, an aspiration that I’d held in since I was twelve
years old. My protagonist was born that day – an empowered victim who takes on
the evils of the Universe, Lacy Dawn. I began to write fiction in the evenings
and sometimes went to work the next day without enough sleep. Every time that I
would feel discouraged, when I felt like giving up, I would imagine Lacy Dawn
speaking honestly about the barriers that she faced in pursuit of her dream of
finding a permanent home.
I got to the point where I needed more to sustain my drive. My wife and
I talked it over. That’s when the idea of donating proceeds to the prevention
of child abuse became a commitment that has sustained my discouragement to this
day. Three short
Lacy Dawn Adventures were subsequently published in
magazines and
Rarity from the Hollow
is my debut novel.
At least half of author proceeds have been donated to
Children’s Home Society of
West Virginia, a nonprofit child welfare agency where I used to
work in the early ‘80s. It was established in 1893 and now serves over 13 000
families and children each year and is located in an impoverished state in the
U.S. with inadequate funding to deliver effective social services.
childhswv.org.
During my career, many emotionally charged situations have tugged my heart
strings so hard that child welfare became more than my job, more than a cause.
It became a calling.
Rarity from the
Hollow fictionalized some of my true-life experiences and includes elements
of poverty, domestic violence, child maltreatment, substance abuse and mental
health problems. I wrote what I know best. My characters are more real than
not, even though the backdrop of the story is science fiction.
I modeled the flow of the story after a mental health treatment episode
involving a traumatized child: harsh and difficult to read scenes in the
beginning of the story are similar to how, in treatment, therapeutic
relationships must first be established before very difficult disclosures are
made; cathartic and more relaxed scenes in middle chapters as detailed
disclosures are less painful; and, increasingly satiric and comical toward the
end through an understanding that it is “silly” to live in the past, that
demons, no matter how scary, can be evicted, and that nothing controls our
lives more so than the decisions that we make ourselves.
I know that it sounds weird, but I imagined victims benefiting from having
read a science fiction story. Maybe I was trying to rationalize a balance
between these two competing interests – writing fiction and my interests in
child welfare. Even though I’d paid into the U.S. Social Security fund for over
fifty-two years, I felt a little guilty about retiring from work. The decision
to donate author proceeds to child abuse prevention helped resolve some of my
guilty feelings, but my writing seems to have been affected, as well.
In hindsight, maybe my idea that victims of childhood
mistreatment could benefit from reading
Rarity
from the Hollow wasn’t so off-base after all. Four book reviewers have
privately disclosed to me that they were victims of childhood maltreatment,
like me, and that they had benefited having read the story. Three of them wrote
glowing book reviews of the novel, one of whom publicly disclosed that she had
been a rape victim as part of her review
http://mistralkdawn.blogspot.com/2015/12/interview-with-robert-eggleton.html?zx=b438ff3b4e310b53
, and the fourth reviewer promoted the novel on her blog and on a radio show
broadcast from the U.K. This book reviewer wants to interview Lacy Dawn, the
protagonist.
Wouldn’t it be wonderful if a parent could read a book and actually become a
better parent? In my experience, we typically parent the way that we were
parented, even, sometimes, when we strive to do better. Unfortunately, there is
a correlation between experiencing abuse in childhood and inflicting abuse as a
parent.
Nevertheless,
Rarity from the Hollow
is a tribute to the concept of victimization to empowerment. Many abused kids
demonstrate resilience that, for me, is amazing. Especially when abuse is
related to the mental illness or substance abuse of or by the parent, guilt, in
my opinion, rather than functioning as a motivator to address the problem can
actually be detrimental. Parents who read my story may achieve insight that
their children, more than anything in the world, want to love them, and that,
while the damage done may not be forgotten or forgiven, that their children are
strong and can not only survive, but can become empowered.
Also, especially with increasing awareness of PTSD, such as that experienced
by Lacy Dawn’s father in the story, “Rarity from the Hollow” provides hope to
spouses that the condition is treatable. By exemplifying the impact of
treatment, this story may encourage readers with PTSD, such as Vets returning
from the war in the Middle East, to seek treatment. I certainly hope so. In my
experience, PTSD and anger management concerns are related, and can potentially
result in sudden anger at anything, including a defenseless child.
If you or one of your readers has experienced childhood
violence and your emotions are easily triggered, please exercise caution before
deciding whether or not to read
Rarity
from the Hollow. While there is only one violent scene, the third, it is
intense and there are mature references in the story. Subsequent chapters
become increasingly satiric and comical and the novel won a Gold Medal from
Awesome Indies as a “…hillbilly version of
Hitchhiker’s
Guide to the Galaxy” – a science fiction comedy.
http://awesomeindies.net/ai-approved-review-of-rarity-from-the-holly-by-robert-eggleton/ My intent was for the early tragedy to
amplify the comedy that follows, so I do also recommend that readers who have
been victimized to stick with the story beyond the early chapter in order to
witness the empowerment.
Last week, a book reviewer from Bulgaria named Rarity from the Hollow as one of the five
best reads of 2015. http://codices.info/2015/12/top-5-for-2015-ventsi/